“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” (Winston Churchill)
We often look at numbers when planning our finances: how much do we earn from investments, how much have we saved, and when will we be able to retire? These are very important for making the future safe. But some of the best returns you’ll ever get can’t be shown on a chart. These are the deep feelings of joy, connection, and purpose that come from being generous.
Giving is a powerful way to improve your emotional health – and it also attracts tax breaks and estate-planning benefits. If you know the why behind this, you can turn giving to charity from a line item in your budget into a deeply satisfying part of your life.
What science says about the smile
It’s no coincidence that you feel happy after helping someone. It’s hard-wired into your brain chemistry. Neuroscientists have found that performing kind acts activates brain regions linked to pleasure and social connection. People often call this the giver’s high, and it comes from a powerful mix of neurochemicals, including:
- Dopamine, called the feel-good chemical, makes us feel happy when we do something good.
- Oxytocin is the bonding hormone that makes us feel connected and trusting, thereby strengthening our social bonds.
- Endorphins, which are natural painkillers, can make you feel happy and even help with pain.
Our brains are wired in a very real way to reward us for being kind. But the benefits don’t end there. Studies have consistently shown that doing kind things regularly is linked to:
- Less stress and lower blood pressure
- Less depression and anxiety
- A greater sense of purpose and satisfaction with life
- A longer life
Giving is a powerful two-way street that helps both the giver and the receiver in many ways.
How to give with heart and mind
Giving is always good, but when you give in line with your deepest values, it has an even bigger effect on the world and on your own health. When you go from reactive giving (giving when asked) to intentional giving, it becomes a meaningful way to show who you are and what you care about most.
Here’s how to make your giving more meaningful and valuable:
- Find out why you want to do it
- Link giving to your core values
- Ask yourself what kind of mark you want to leave on the world. Is it about:
- Giving people a chance? (for example, by funding education or mentorship programs)
- Helping people in pain? (for example, by funding medical research or hunger relief)
- Keeping your community safe? (for example, helping a local arts centre by paying for security)
Your values are what guide you. When your giving matches your values, every donation feels less like an expense and more like an investment in a cause you really believe in.
Being generous isn’t just about money
Money isn’t the only thing you can donate. You can also share your:
- Time: Giving your skills to a local non-profit
- Talent: Giving your time for free or serving on a board
- Ties: Using your network to bring people and groups together for the greater good
Giving in more than one way, like donating to a charity that you also volunteer at, can make you feel even more connected to the cause.
Practice mindful giving
It’s easy to want to give small amounts to many different causes, but research and experience show that giving to one cause at a time usually has a bigger impact. Instead of spreading your resources too thin, consider supporting a few organisations that share your values. This lets you get to know the charity better, see the real results of your donations, and build a relationship with them.
Giving a tradition
It’s essential to teach people how to be generous. Talking about your family’s charitable goals can bring you closer together and teach younger kids about being responsible with money and caring about others. Think about these options:
- Family meetings: Talk about the causes that matter to everyone and make a family donation together.
- Donor-Advised Funds (DAFs): These can be a great way to involve family members in grant decisions.
- Volunteering together: As a family, serving a meal at a shelter or cleaning up a park makes memories and teaches the importance of giving back.
Giving well is a key part of a good life
In the end, being generous is about more than giving to charity; it’s about making connections. It makes us remember that we are part of something bigger than ourselves. In a world that often seems to be about getting more, choosing to give is a strong statement that our lives are not defined by what we have, but by what we share. This is especially true in a country as unequal as South Africa.
As your financial planners, we can help you ensure that your values are part of every aspect of your financial life, including your charitable goals. We can help you make a difference in your community and in your own life. Because the best thing you can do for yourself might be to help others.
Whether you want to find the best way to donate to charity, discuss how to align your finances with your values, or set up a charitable trust, we are here to assist.
Jason Yutar: +27 83 415 9603 or
Zaheera Mohammed: +27 82 775 1898
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